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I Cannot Stand Being Loved, Just Used

Submitted by MasterVoyer on Fri, 09/18/2015 - 11:22

Note written by requiempoet on FetLife on 11/14/2009

I don't like all of this hub bub with love. I don't really 'love' anyone. Although I say it a lot, because it's the normal natural human reaction. Someone says ' I love you, you say it back.' If you don't say it you're rude and you probably will go to the crazy house.

Is There a Place For Love in D/s?

Submitted by MasterVoyer on Thu, 04/09/2015 - 14:06
 
Over the last couple of weeks in talking with several people this subject has come up, one I feel is very important in the community, one I feel is very misunderstood and misrepresented.
 
First of all, in my opinion, love is very necessary in a D/s relationship. It’s necessary in any relationship from strangers passing on the street to living with one's life partner. Of course there is a great deal of difference in these types of love. But I will be concentrating on the love that a Dominant and a submissive need and should have.

Pain Scales & Safe Words

Submitted by MasterVoyer on Thu, 04/09/2015 - 14:05
 
The number scale is:
1 being wow, really? Hmm... I thought it was a feather duster.
5 being yeah I can really feel that and it's delicious.
7 being ooohhh I don't know that's really kind of painful
9 being I'm about to break
10 being END SCENE NOW!!!! Or if you go by color scale this would be RED.
 
For reference the color scale on a basic level:
Red: STOP, Stop now, I'm not playing.